- Ray: Mail time.
- Michael: Mail's here!!!
- Michael/Geoff/Ray: ♫ Here's the mail it never fails, it makes me wanna wag my tail. When it comes I wanna wail, MAAAAIIIIIL!!!! ♫
- Gavin: WHAT ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT?!
it ok to not be ready
Please spread this shit like wildfire. People go on and sit through the whole experience and they’re uncomfortable because they just want to please their partner and they don’t tell them that they want to stop because they are not ready. It’s okay not to be ready.
notice here that consent is revoked without ever saying no and consent goes so far beyond yes/no!!!!!!
- don’t ever feel bad for asking me to tag a trigger
- i do not care what the trigger is
- i will tag it for you
- you have legitimate reasons to be triggered by it
- and i am not one to question those reasons
- so just send me an ask
- anonymous if you’re scared
- and i will tag it all the time in future
- your wellbeing is worth twenty extra seconds of my time at least