When (and if) I get married, I don’t want a white dress. I want something that reflects who I am. I don’t want my bridesmaids to wear hideous dresses. I want them to wear whatever they want. I don’t care if my potential husband-to-be wears a tux or not. I’d be just as comfortable with black pants, a white shirt and a vest. I don’t care if my potential wife-to-be wears a dress or a suit. I just want to be happy.